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Remaking Motherhood

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Ballantine Books
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0670807222, 0449903001, 9780449903001
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Anita Shreve

Anita Shreve grew up in Dedham, Massachusetts (just outside Boston), the eldest of three daughters. Early literary influences include having read Ethan Frome by Edith Wharton when she was a junior in high school (a short novel she still claims as one of her favorites) and everything Eugene O'Neill ever wrote while she was a senior (to which she attributes a somewhat dark streak in her own work). After graduating from Tufts University, she taught high school for a number of years in and around Boston. In the middle of her last year, she quit (something that, as a parent, she finds appalling now) to start writing. "I had this panicky sensation that it was now or never." Joking that she could wallpaper her bathroom with rejections from magazines for her short stories ("I really could have," she says), she published her early work in literary journals. One of these stories, "Past the Island, Drifting," won an O. Henry prize. Despite this accolade, she quickly learned that one couldn't make a living writing short fiction. Switching to journalism, Shreve traveled to Nairobi, Kenya, where she lived for three years, working as a journalist for an African magazine. One of her novels, The Last Time They Met, contains bits and pieces from her time in Africa. Returning to the United States, Shreve was a writer and editor for a number of magazines in New York. Later, when she began her family, she turned to freelancing, publishing in the New York Times Magazine, New York magazine and dozens of others. In 1989, she published her first novel, Eden Close. Since then she has written 12 other novels, among them The Weight of Water, The Pilot's Wife, The Last Time They Met, A Wedding in December, and Body Surfing. In 1998, Shreve received the PEN/L. L. Winship Award and the New England Book Award for fiction. In 1999, she received a phone call from Oprah Winfrey, and The Pilot's Wife became the 25th selection of Oprah's Book Club and an international bestseller. In April 2002, CBS aired the film version of The Pilot's Wife, starring Christine Lahti, and in fall 2002, The Weight of Water, starring Elizabeth Hurley and Sean Penn, was released in movie theaters. Still in love with the novel form, Shreve writes only in that genre. "The best analogy I can give to describe writing for me is daydreaming," she says. "A certain amount of craft is brought to bear, but the experience feels very dreamlike." Shreve is married to a man she met when she was 13. She has two children and three stepchildren, and in the last eight years has made tuition payments to seven colleges and universities.

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If you are a working mother, take time to read this book. If you are a mother that works, you are probaly familiar with the feelings of guilt and ambivilance that come with leaving your children for your job. Anita Shreve, an award-winning journalist and working mother herself, finally has some good news for you: working mothers are enhancing their children's lives in many ways that nonworking mothers are not. Remaking Motherhood is the first book to shatter the commonly held beliefs about the negative effects of working mothers on their children. Shreve's impeccable research draws on recent statistics and interviews with scores of psychologists, sociologists, working mothers, and their children, to provide a balanced view of these families' risks and rewards. Along with the information on the stresses and strains and -how to handle them- Shreve presents a consensus among professionals that these childrens lives are enriched: they are more independent, outgoing, and do better academically, than the children of stay-at-home mothers. But perhaps the most significant factor is how working mothers are educating their children about family roles. The children Shreve interviewed are much more comfortable with the idea of women who combine work and family, and with fathers who share household chores and parenting duties with their partners. These children will grow up with a fuller sense of life's options and a greater sense of harmony about "masculine" and "feminine" pursuits. Revolutionary, compassionate, and enlightening, Remaking Motherhood is crucial reading for every working parent-and anyone thinking of becoming one.

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